In my own life, the issue of finding my true mate was a confusing issue. While in Shar Yashuv, a possibility came up,- a Bat Talmid Chacham [daughter of a Torah scholar]. But for some problem of a misunderstanding, that was set to zero. But a girl I had known in high school was running after me. I had spoken to her about my very special experience in the Litvak Yeshiva world, and she decided to join with me. But I was still set on the daughter of a true Torah scholar. For after all I wanted to learn Torah always and forever. After all, we see in the Yerushalmi that every word of Torah is equal to all the other commandments. Thanks to God, and her amazing persistence to get me, I gave in, --the best decision I ever made in my whole life. What this shows is that as the sages said after the Creation was does God occupy his time with? Answer: making matches.