Today the women want a wussy after they have had their fun. Some Beta Male to pick up the slack in their 30's after they spent their 20's having fun with the guys. They want a slave.
The most stupid thing a man can do is marry a woman that has a child.
Today no one knows what it means to be a man because it is really a combination of talents. One is when the chips are not down. When civilization is going according to plan. Then it is the skills one needs in everyday life. To have an honest kosher vocation. But when the chips are down, to know what to do, and to be prepared for it.
To know what to do when the chips are down, To be able to work together in a team. To know who the enemy is. To be able to identify the frauds and charlatans.